Okay so I am doing the Witch quest, and my Monarch(female) is supposed to marry the Warlock. But I accidentally courted with a trader a few quests back, and had forgotten about it. Everything I read where people did the same thing said they just "dumped" the trader and were able to court with the warlock, but I have no idea how to "dump" the trader. I can never find him and when I click on his pic under relations it just says he cannot have a marker.
Please Help??

well, i know when they can't have a marker it means they arn't on the map, so first try clicking on the pidgen mail box thing and inviting him over. they will come over then. and they're marker will become availible on their way to your charecter. I don't know how to dump the trader, but cheating on him/her should do it... try arguing and fighting with them? maybe the option will come up.

So i figured out how to call him over, thanks :)
BUUTT whenever I try calling him to either a location, or calling him over, a little message pops up that says sorry im busy, try me again later. And, I have done that quite a few times over a spaced out period of time, but I keep getting the same response.

is the trader a hero sim? you could just do a quest with him and figure out wtf is going on :P